When we would attend a janaza or hear of one, the effect of that news would show on us for days. We knew that the dead has succumbed to a fate that will direct him to Paradise of the Fire. You, however, talk about matters of this life during janaza.
(Read on pg 92, Abdul-Malik bin Muhammad ibn Abdul Rahman Al-Qasim, Silent Moments: The Description of Before & After Death Aspects. Darussalam Publishers. Riyadh:2004.)